Friday, August 12, 2011

Millions of jobs have been cut from city, county and state workers?

My trash has gone to a 2 week collection schedule, and my water bill has trippled. Pot holes now are much more common than a few years ago, and half of my city has been sold out to "Chinese Investors".. So obviously big improvement since corporate America has shifted their focus on building up Communst china.

Is this anxiety or am I just thinking way too much?

On and off since November due to a layoff, new job, new commute, traffic, then dealing with a new location. I dont know if its because Im lonley (I bought a house at 24 by myself) or Im stressed out. But sometimes I get a little nervous and anxious. I started seeing a therapist because this is all new to me. I dont want to call it full blown anxiety because their not Bad. My heart may race, I may feel uneasy but only lasts a couple of minutes. Does the feeling ever go away? My therapist said that its new things in my life and I just need to become comfotable again.

Why not raise taxes on the super wealthy?

There are companies doing business in America that are worth billions and they don't pay any taxes. Bank of America, Exxon Mobile, GE, and CitiGroup have a combined tax liability of less than $3. That is so fuxxed up I wish it was a joke. I paid more taxes when I was a kid with a paper route than Exxon Mobile did.

Advice regarding stray cat,please.especially if u have experience with semi-feral.?

i have 2 friendly cats.a neighbor moved and left behind a siamese mix.we fed him for 3 months and finally caught him and took him in.he loves our other cats and they love him..we are going to keep the new cat,indoor only like our first two.heres the problem.sam the new cat has an appointment to be neutered/get shots this thurs.but he does not like to be handled,and he hisses and is threatening when we try to pick him up.i would like to have proper vet visit for him,but he is a large scary tom and i am afraid my husband and i will get torn up trying to catch him.we had to use a trap to get him inside and i think he will be too smart to fall for that again.his urine does not smell strong,unlike most intact males,and he goes in the box and does not spray.i wonder if he has been fixed already-cant get close enough to find out.we dont mind that he doesnt like being handled.he gets along well with our kitties,and he was not looking too good on the streets.we are glad to give him a home, even if he would rather interact with other cats,not us.he is not aggressive unless u try to pick him up or carry him.he will let himself be petted sometimes.but he does get agrgessive if handled and messed with too much.so,do we try to wrestle him into the carrier thurs morning,put it off awhile,or just not neuter him? i worry that intact males are prone to blockages, however.i am not trying to get out of a vet visit,i just dont want to get hurt,my mom was bit by a cat once and had to go to the hospital it was pretty bad.we could not leave him outside,other cats were beating him up ,he seemed miserably unhappy.except when handled a lot,he seems content and happy at our house and relieved to have fresh food,water and a nice place to live.so-do i try the vet thurs or not? hints or tips for dealing with fearful,semi-feral cats,appreciated...

The company fired me by email stating that I verbally resigned and I didn't is this possible?

If my company stated that I verbally told them i would resign and I didn't what can I do? They sent me an email stating that's what I said and fired me through email. Also what if my position was originally picked to receive a layoff due to the company outsourcing and they decided to fire me due to this "verbal notice"? I have documentation showing that I didn't have any work left? How can this be fought? I live in Atlanta, GA

Should I ask one of my best girl-friends out?

Don't you know its hard for guys to be friends with a girl when he is so attracted too her, the friendship is doomed anyways why not flirt with her and stop being the friend and act like a guy who wants a girlfriend,yes if you want her then treat her like a hot girl your chasing instead of treating like your ugly cousin so if you need help google the" ladder theory" or" get me out the friend zone" just to see what your doing wrong with this girl.

Why is there so little assistance for abused fathers and their children?

Maybe because in 10 cases of men abusing women there will be only 1 case of women abusing men. The government gave the.women so much power because they think womens are weak . Some women use it the right way and some women use it cleverly to abuse men.example a foriegne men marries a local women. Out 100% 90% of women use their power to threaten men abuse them .and make them do house work that ia sad some man work and they have to do house work after there office work .

Renters rights in michigan?

You just have to wait and see and if you feel he was not fair you can present a case in small claims court.

Crashing US wages! -- is this the real problem?

Next time you are walking past a gambling venue take a look in through the glass and front the problem.They gambling and not buying.

Is Chobits worth reading?

I just finished reading the first half (Omnibus 1), and while I found it fairly enjoyable it seemed lacking in plot/drama (too much ecchi, repetition, and lackluster characters). Does the second half pick up the pace, or is it more of the same? Also, does Chobits have a *completely* happy ending? (please don't say what the ending is...I just want to know if it's "and everyone lived happily ever after, the end." I can't stand happy endings). :P I don't want to fork over another 25 dollars for the second half if it's not worth it, so that's why I'm asking. :)

Comedy Show Interrupts Company's Bankruptcy Announcement?

I remember seeing a video on the news a long time ago. I think it was General Motors announcing layoffs or bankruptcy when a comedy news host interrupted and started making jokes, asking him questions while he was making the announcement. The host was a women and when she was getting boo'd off she had a shocked look on her face. Can someone link me to the video?

Am I traumatized? I don't know what to think?

You got to talk this out with somebody - even just a friend. You have to tell the story over and over - you have to relive it a few time - maybe many times. It's a terrible thing you saw! And you have to lay it on the table and get it out of you.

Do you think kids now a days are stressed to much?

how many kids do you know walk around there rooms and 2 am pacing back and forth drinking a cup of apple juice,smoking a candy cigarrette and stressing out of having a english test the next day at school.

Can an employer ask a salaried employee not to come in one day to avoid paying a days wages?

My cousin turned in her two week notice and her employer is asking her to miss some days of work in order to not give her a full paycheck at the end of the two weeks. We live in an at will State but I couldn't find information to clarify if it is legal or not to withhold a days wages if the Employer requested it for mere savings on his part. There are no layoffs or financial issues with his company since it is only him and my cousin who work in the office.

Teachers, how is the outlook in the profession?

I am now about to enter my second year of college, and am still conflicted between two majors. One being liberal studies. Although teaching would be my one main goal, what scares me most is not being able to find a job once I obtain my degree (I live in California if that helps) I am wondering, has the conditions for teachers improved? Or are they still receiving pink slips and layoffs up till today? I wish to teach in an elementary school, what are the chances of finding a descent job after college? Because of this, I am soo worried as to whether I should pursue teaching or not. I have tutored before, and helped elementary teachers out during class. I absolutely love the classroom atmosphere. The low salary doesn't even bother me, its just the fact that it seems as if its so hard to find a job afterwards. Should I still pursue teaching?

No BS, did i just see a UFO, shooting star, or a comet?? it was no airplane, impossible..?

I was walking my dog just now and was just looking at the stars, and they all looked as they normally do, just wayyyyyyy out there, small little bright dots, but when i stopped I noticed one of those small bright dots was moving, fast, like really fast, and I know what airplanes look like in the air this was no freaking air plane, this was farrrr to high, cuz like I said it looked EXACTLY like a star, it was the same size and of the same brightness of the rest of the stars, except this one was moving at a fast pace, then just dissapeared.. like all crazy bs theories aside, did i just a UFO or was just like a comet or something? there was no tail or anything, just go outside, look at all the stars, thats what it looked like, except this one was moving fast.

What do you think about this story i made. weird, huh?

It's a really, really rough first draft. If English is your first language, you will need to take a basic language arts course to get anywhere as a writer. There are issues with grammar, word choice and sentence structure. For instance, verb tense should agree throughout your story, unless it is clear that a character is speaking, thinking or fantasizing. Second, who wants to read about what Hugo almost did or couldn't do? If you're going to write about Hugo, tell us what he did and show us through the action what is going on.

Finish "translating" the prologue to Romeo and Juliet from Shakespeare's poetry to your prose.?

Here you go:a href="http://www.sparknotes.com/shakespeare/romeojuliet/section1.html" rel="nofollow"http://www.sparknotes.com/shakespeare/ro…/a

Ran a red light today?

I ran a red light today in Rhode island, I'm fearful that perhaps there was a camera to detect people who run the intersection. Is there anyway to look up where these cameras are located? Also, if I went back to the intersection, can I physically locate the camera, or is it hidden?

How does getting laid off worsen the economy?

Like many people in LAUSD are getting laid off, teachers, counselors, librarians and so on. Lets say they get off, they don't have a job so they can't pay their mortgage, or pay the loans to the bank, therefore lose their house...So many people won't be able to repay their bank loans then the banks could possibly go bankrupt? Whats the process of a bank going bankrupt simplified? Basically, what are negative effects of the LAUSD layoffs on the economy?

Could this possibly cause my principal to get fired?

My friend and I are trying to gain support in order to stop continuous teacher layoffs, and we, along with the majority of our large school, have decided to hold a walkout on the 31st of this month; we're sharing it on Facebook, everything, and we're going to meet at Balboa Park immediately afterwards to protest. However, another friend told me that actually going through with it might result in my principal getting fired for not putting an end to it. I don't want a lecture on how missing out on my education counters the purpose, I just want to know if this could get my principal fired. Thank you.

Is this a good prologue?

All that I see is a bunch of words stockpiled together. Clean it up. Its good, it really is, but all those words jumbled together make my head spin.

The $27 Billion deficit in Texas is going cause 600,000 layoffs (State and Private) is now a good time to?

And to think for 2 years they've been telling us how the rest of the United States should just do what they do in Texas and everything would be fine.

What are my tenant rights in tennessee?

I have recently moved from florida to tennessee, I have a little apartment in oak ridge. I have a full time job and a semi- disabled partner who would be unable to defend himself in case of emergency and is very juggernaut about keeping the door locked at all times. Well over the past two months there have been several instances where we have come home anf found the door unlocked, and odd things have happened. Like important personal files on my computer being left open, and the channels on my television being changed to shows that me and my partner do not watch. The most recent occurence has been when he was home alone and in the shower, someone entered our apartment, and then ran like a bat out of hell when they noticed he was home. He saw the maintanance man leaving so fast he almost missed him. The office gave us some bs excuses about how he came in to check and apartments plumbing, to a unit 302, which we checked and that unit isnt even in the same building. He is now very fearful of someone coming in why we arent herem and he has not slept in two days. Literally, he is so scared that when i walk back in from having a cigarette he jumps, even though he knows im am out there. I would like to knwo what we should do about this situation?... Is there any way that this would be seen as a breach of contract by the court system?.. Im willing to do what it takes to find us a more suitable home.

Boyfrien cheated on me with my best friend?

WOw horrible i mean i can imagine how it hurts that the two most important people in your life betrayed like that screw them you don't need that in your life they are both trash that u should trow away and never pick it up , i know it will take time for you to feel better and forget but just keep going with your life show them your better then that ,that bf of yours if he would of love you he would of never F***** your friend in the first place and your friend i don't have words for that B**** it will take time for you to recover but remember for next time never trust a friend close to your boyfriend never.

Why is the US Embassy in London processing visas so slowly?

Obviously they have a lot to get through, but the wait time has just about doubled in the past few months for filing DCF in London. Did they have layoffs or something?

Can someone help me with baby names please?

I love the name Evelyn and it sounds even prettier with the middle name Jane. But i also love the sound of the name Laurelyn Rose. The other ones i don't really like that much.

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Would you consider this to be animal abuse/neglect?

I was dog-sitting for my neighbors and I discovered that they only feed their full-grown golden retriever 3 measuring cups (actual 3 cups) of food per day. They also only give her one bowl of water for a day - and it's a small bowl. I've felt the dog, I can literally stick my fingers between her ribs. She's never had a bath or hair cut, so her fur is very long, yet I can still see her ribs through her fur. They don't walk the dog at all, and she sits outside all day on the deck. They have a fenced yard, BUT they keep her on a 3 ft leash all day. It's been raining non stop for the week and she's been sitting out there with no food at all, in the rain. She is fed her 3 cups of food once a day, and she has to eat very very fast to the point of choking it down. (When I was taking care of her, she would run for the food, eat it as fast as possible and then duck down to the floor like she was scared I'd hit her near the end of her meal). They are extremely impatient with her. I was told that the husband had once beaten the dog. She is very fearful of her owners. She rarely eats or gets fresh water. I was considering reporting the neighbors to the SPCA, but I'm not sure if they would classify this as abuse or not. I don't want to waste their time. I'm looking for serious answers, and advice or suggestions please. Thanks guys :)

Panic Attacks Again (unusual behavior)?

Ok so ive suffered from Panic Disorder for a very long time...i believe initally this started because of an emense amount of school bullying in high school,that has affected me for the rest of my life.Then as i was in my teens i used a fair bit of meth and got so many panic attacks it was wayyy to over whelming.To the point where every time i came down of meth I would have a crazy panic attack where i wanted to run run run away from the situation i was in at the time and would do anything to escape.After i quit using meth for obvious reasons.I would still for a couple of years get panic attacks for no apparent reason,say if something was overwhelming (mind you this can be a Happy event) I even missed my daughters birthday because of a panic attack i was so excited but worried i wouldnt host her party properly and thought suddenly i wasnt good enough.I still to this day hate myself for that and think what a bad mother i was even though realistically i am an amazing mother. Anyway just recently i had a heavy night of drinking and had my best friend and her partner look after my children at our house overnight.When i arrived home i wasnt too bad but as soon as i walked into the dooor I started to get paranoid and thinking that they were looking wierd at me like there was something wrong with me.I started to avoid the babysitters and pray that they would go home soon and leave.I can deal with a panic attack on my own with my kids but to have ppl around freaks me out,i needed to clear my head alone.So i kept going outside for a smoke and a full blown attack started.Mind you my friend who babysat is my bestest friend in the whole world but i was sooo paranoid about who know what?? So I sat outside trying to work out how to run away from the situation.I was soooo fearfu;,felt like a bad mum again and told my partner im going to bed and having another panic attack :( I felt soooo rude but i was in emense fear...i feel like such an idiot...i hate this.So i hid under my blankets like a newborn baby rocking back and forward,trying to work out how to make this insanity stop.I hated myself again and had visions of cutting myself to release the pain and hope it would go.I prayed no one would come in and talk to me because i stutter and freak out when im confronted.Heres the bit that freaked me out i was dying to go to the toilet so bad and held it in for ages...hoping they would leave so i woul;d feel partially normal again.But they didnt do i found a small bowl under my bed and went to the toilet int their.I felt so retarded and fearful of having to run from my room to the toilet because i didnt want anyone to see me..wtf is wrong with me...stooping to peeing in a bowl for the avoidence of others and being confronted.I feel totally insane. WTF is wrong with me.please help :(

I need guy advice on my boyfriend?

been played wow too many times and I get fearful to trust my heart with anyone. I started seeing this guy who says he loves me and I'm the most important thing to him, super affectionate when I'm with him. The problem is he lives far away (1.5 hours drive) and seeing him is not so easy. I really miss him all the time but when I call him he seems to be fine...I ask him does he miss me and he says yes or of course I do. He hardly calls or texts and had chances to see me but thinks if one of us it sick or he has work the next day he shouldn't come over.... Fair enough but what I'm confused about is if he really wanted to see me he would rain, hail or shine. I talk to him about this and he said I do feel all that but i just don't show it. Do you think I'm thinking way too much into this? do guys really hide their feelings?

How do you renew your cpt in california?

my license expires in sep ..i took some pace courses on the ncct website do those courses count toward the 6 contact hours that is required by california state..please help

Is there an easy way to not break someones heart?

I am a 23 year old male. I was dating a 28 year old female that has a child. She has a great paying job and drives a nice car. The problem is, we have only known each other for one month. After the second week of knowing each other, she started saying that she loves me and I didn’t say it back. A week after that, she started telling me that “I don’t have to make it official, she already know that we are boyfriend and girlfriend”. Of course, we kissed but I didn’t try to make her feel like I love her. I don’t love her, I like her. Earlier this week, she wanted to tell me that I love her but I’m afraid to say it. So after a month of it all, I kindly told her that I couldn’t do this any more. I didn’t want to break her fragile heart but it was scary knowing that I couldn’t pace things with her. So I told her and now she is sending me all these text messages about how I’m immature. Is there an easy way to not break someones heart?

Double standard at teaching job--making me exasperated and very angry--how to solve?

How old are you? This all sounds very junior high school, and while that may be expected of the students, you should be more mature. If your students liked you, they wouldn't do this stuff. You have not presented yourself as a professional who wants to help the students reach their goals. It's too bad you're getting cut because of budget shortages, although there's no reason that I know of that that can't be explained to students. It's going on everywhere. But you're an example of why experience counts. You've overreacted to your students, and not handled this very well. Why should anything an adolescent does, says or thinks infuriate you? Grow up!

Dentist receptionist doesn't space out the appointments, how do I tell her to give more room?

I am a dental assistant and my office recently hired a receptionist that overlaps appointments. We have a lot of HMOs. Usually the schedule is so tight that we are always running behind. I understand the need for fast paced but if there was at least 2-3 minutes in between patients it would be helpful. Lately we haven't even been having time to floss the patient's teeth during their cleaning appointments! So as a dental assistant I am wondering how to tell this receptionist in a nice way that I would like her to space the appointments just a little more.

How much calories do i lose?

im using one of those workout bikes inside. i got the gear at 3 if i go on for 20 minutes without stopping at a medium pace how much calories do u think i would lose. i want a range if u could. example: 20 to 45 from average to something?

Why are we celebrating over budget cuts, people will be layoff?

If budgets aren't cut the country will go bankrupt. I think that is worse than some government workers loosing their jobs.

I don't want to drink less if I don't am I gonna get cirrhosis of the liver and die before 30?

I am drinking a 750 ml's bottle of wine every friday, saturday and sunday or a 375 ml's bottle of vodka or a 1 liter bottle of alize red passion or a liter of hpnotiq or a 750 ml's bottle of Nuvo. One bottle of any of the things I mentioned every friday, saturday and sunday how long till I get very bad severe liver damage like cirrhosis how many years will it take at this pace? P.S. I am 24 years old.

What do you think about Arena Football?

A lot of people knock on it because of the smaller field, but I know people that enjoy the fast paced gameplay as well. How do you like it if you have seen it? I heard NFL scouts look for potential players in it, so it's not as if the players aren't as good as the NFL players.

Does a company have to hire you back after a layoff?

Was laid off last September and the company recently had an add online looking for drivers. Thought if a company laid you off they had to call you first to see if you wanted your old job back.

Whats this piano song being played?

This is actually a song that he composed himself! He wrote so I don't think there's a name or the music is out. Sorry!

Do wish non-physical harm upon your past "friends" or co-workers?

Its only natural to wish harm on those that harmed you in some way. I had a boss that hated me and was a complete Ahole and used to try anything in his power to fire me so I used to wish harm on him and as a month or 2 go by it turns out he was caught on sexual harrassment charges and his corperate career is over..

Is the Ga law woking as intended Many immigrants leaving Georgia behind New law’s impact goes beyond targeting?

Yes, it's working if the illegal aliens are leaving the US, not just Georgia. If they simply change states, then the problem remains for the US as a whole. It would best work if all states adapted these laws and enforced them fully.

I'm going to have a emotional breakdown!! Help?

oh dear! im sorry for your loss! but listen to the great news, you are free. You did not have intercourse with him! its alright! You did not lose anything but your pride. If your friend treats you like this, don't be friends anymore. if a guy treats you like that, get rid of him. and I am so glad you are still a virgin, you are safe. you will find someone special, just wait. Avoid contact with them and move on. Don't be intimate with anyone until you are ready. Just stay calm and if comfort food makes you happy right now, its okay to indulge. Just keep in mind moderation. You can get over this obstacle in your life. Stay strong and remember your moral values. Read a book, that always clears the mind! go for a nature walk! Watch a funny movie to lift the spirits. Hangout with other friends that make you happier or make new friends. Learn something you have never done before. Listen to music. write poetry. involve yourself in a working environment to forget him. These are a few of the things that may help ease your pain. But again, you did not lose anything of value, you can move on there is nothing stopping you! Hope that helps :)

I was fired by email stating that I verbally resigned and I didn't can this be done?

If my company stated that I verbally told them i would resign and I didn't what can I do? They sent me an email stating that's what I said and fired me through email. Also what if my position was originally picked to receive a layoff due to the company outsourcing and they decided to fire me due to this "verbal notice"? I have documentation showing that I didn't have any work left? How can this be fought? I live in Atlanta, GA

Why don't USA citizens realize this whole recovery thing is a big lie?

Hah Erik. Truth is the USA has always been in debt, from the time is was formed to now, far beyond any gov't or financial plan can solve. If the president were to say the country is going down the drain, everybody would sell their stocks(creating another depression), mass hysteria would form, prices would inflate and the value of the US dollar would plummet and the whole world economy would collapse. This in turn would lead to riots/revolutions/rebellions, pretty much every country would fight for the control of oil(which were already experiencing) and the world would end. :)

I quit my job, can I still get unemployment?

I was suppose to be layoff in August of 2010 but that was postponed until November 2010, which was delayed until January of 2011, and finally set for April 18 of 2011. In the mean time I made plans to relocate but delayed my departure to accommodate my employer and to be eligible for unemployment. However April 18 date came and went with no specific date but talk of an additional 90 days before layoffs would take effect. Without a specific date and with no confidence in the layoff to be completed in 90 days, I resigned and will be moving. My Controller and other friends suggested I still should apply for unemployment. Do you think I have a chance to still collect? I do have a paperwork with the original date and a copy of an emails explaining delays in layoffs as evidence. Thanks

Potential overtraining issue?

Around Christmas I had problems with overtaining and after many layoffs I finally was able to start rebuilding my running mileage again. I've been feeling great after all my runs and have been feeling like I could go faster than I have been and have really been careful since but lately all the old signs of my overtraining are back (except for decreased performance). I have been under a lot of stress with work aand everything so could it just be that or is it overtraining again?

Is converting to christianism because of fear, a bad thing?

Why some christians try to convert people by putting the fear of hell in their mind? It only mean your faith will go as deep as the fear itself, so how can you be a true christian if you will forget christianity the second there is something more fearful?

What should I do about my mother?

Last year, my mother was convicted of possession of crack. Turns out it had been an ongoing problem for years, which most of my family knew about, but I was kept in the dark. It really explains a lot of the neglect that my siblings and I went through, and a lot of the random fits of anger our mom would have. It never made sense until now. I've always felt sorry for her. I never knew why she was such an angry, bitter person. As such, I've kept my anger from her, I've never expressed it, always fearful of hurting her feelings. It seems that in exchange, all this internalized anger has affected me in negative ways. All these years later, is it worth confronting her about? I have no idea how to go about the situation, but I know that something has to be done, or else I'll carry this for the rest of my life- I worry that I will never become whole as a person if I can't move past this. Advice?

Can a 5 year old burn 150 calories on the treadmill?

Kids should NEVER be around exercise equipment without an adult. Do not attemp this. Get your mom or dad.

Can I get a mortgage with bad credit?

can I get a mortgage with "fair credit" score in the 620's last time I checked if I have half the purchase price as a down payment. All credit is 7 yrs or older so a lot of it will start falling off soon if I were to re-pay or try and repair my credit right now it would hurt me not help me because that would reset the dates and it would be another 7 yrs before it comes off . Plus paying it now is not going to make me look good because it has been so long too. I am finally back on my feet after a layoff completely destroyed my life and I lost everything. I want to buy a home and be done with credit forever because I never want to be in the position I was in before. That is why I want to pay half of the purchase price up front and only get a $25000 loan for the remainder with a 15 yr mortgage. Is this possible with my low score? if so does anyone know how?

If Jesus died to save us from our sins, and he already did, then why can't believers be perfect?

Because the sacrifice of Christ Jesus that brings forgiveness of sins will not be fully applied until after the final test when Satan will be released from the abyss. It's only after that test that everlasting life will be given to those that pass. It's during Christ Jesus' 1000 year reign that people will be brought back to perfection which is after Armageddon and all wickedness is removed.

I need a good workout to get back in shape?

Back in December I had a surgery on my rib cage, which left me unable to do any workouts until just recently. Needless to say I lost a lot of muscle. I'm exactly 6'00'' tall and weigh around 150lbs. I own a Weider Pro 4300, and am looking to get muscle back in arms, legs, and torso at a steady pace. Any good workouts? Thanks in advance!

Can I sue over a layoff?

My former boss had me laid off supposedly due to budget cuts. He would always tell me that no one there liked me and that I wasn't adding any value to the company being there. He would always have lunch with everyone else at the job but never me. Less than 6 months later, he hired someone else. Do I have any legal claim against my former company?

First job tomorrow but i'm scared!?

I"ve never worked and im afraid i'll screw so many times on something. I feel so stupid and plus im very forgetful like i forget almost everything and it sucks. Im 20 and for some reason im scared. Im working at subway but its a fast paced job but the problem is im a slow worker everything, even in school. Im supposed to be working the cash register tomorrow but im terrible math like so so bad so im scared about that and cooking and getting everything done quickly is gonna be even harder for me. I so stressed out right now just thinking about this. I mean what if i get yelled at because i can't complete a job on time and even doing right. I also have ADD which is problem. My parents said i have to work sooner or later but i terrified and i feel like im gonna pass out. I have social anxiety too. The say that i'm dumb, stupid, waste of time, worthless, lazy, and my brother calls me a bum and then tells me t grow up. My dad says that im irresponsible. I feel horrible about tomorrow and about myself. What do i do?

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Is it bad for a dog to be shut up in a 15' by 15' fenced in area, alone, for a week with no human interaction?

This dog has food, water and shelter. Even so, its been extremely hot out. 95 to 100 degrees.Theres also been some severe storms. the dog paces nervously when I come over to give it water. I am not allowed to let him out.he has bit someone before. I just put a hose in to make sure he has water. He has an automatic feeder full of food in there.He's not so bad that they can't be around him. I have seen the dog recently run around the front yard for about a minute. I think he just has potential to bite. The dogs demeaner seems playful and sweet at times(seeing him from across the street) but when he's in the fenced in area he paces and seems off. Only way I can think to describe it. just feel like somethings not right with the dog. Probably why they have him back there. I feel bad for this dog but I'm not sure if I'm worried about nothing.The caged in thing just seems bad for him but I think the owners feel they have no other choice. They are nice people. I don't believe they would ever intentionally mistreat there dog. I just wonder if they may not realize it.They probably do spend time with it and play with him in the backyard and take him places for all I know. Sense I know for sure the dog is going to be caged up for at least a week now and its so god awful hot out I feel like its not quite right. The dog does have shelter from the sun and two buckets of water and food. Its just a tiny area with no human or animal interaction except when I come over to make sure his water is full. I can't even pet him or let him out to run for fear he may unexpectedly get aggressive. Is this bad for a dog?

Do the recent struggles of Nokia and Research in Motion illustrate the need for government economic planning?

The ONLY dots to connect here, is if either company loses enough marketshare to where they don't pay as much in taxes that they normally would due to lower profits In which case, the feds should adjust their budgets accordingly. But they don't and they won't!

I had acl and menicus surgery?

it was feb/3/2010 i did rehad but it feel like its slackin... when i walk my balance is off.. what can i do to make it stronger.. n up to pace with my good knee..

Can some one explain the 'up tick rule' and tell me if it is good for workers, and the economy?

You understand wrong. The uptick rule means that you cannot short sell a stock except when the trade price is higher than the previous trade price. This is neither good nor bad for the economy and doesn't have anything to do with layoffs. To the extent that it has any effect, it prevents short sellers from selling to people who have entered buy orders that are triggered by a sudden major down-draft in share price caused by the release of unfavorable news about the stock.

Traveling pipe-fitter husband, money is tight, he misses family, kids miss him...take layoff or stay working?

Honestly I know that it's hard, but you will be much better off if he is still working. My husband is out of a job and has been for almost 2 years now (it dosn't help that our small town has no jobs). And all the bills and expensise are on me to pay for myself, and I only work part time. I would suggest having him apply for jobs that are in your town or closer to your town. Don't let him quit his job until he has found one that is closer to home. I know it's hard being mommy and daddy but it will be much worse if your boys have mommy and daddy, and no food on the table. Good luck.

How to stop the same stranger from repeatedly talking to me? Should I be worried for my safety?

Okay this is the longest question ever, but if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe please be aware of your surroundings and make sure to bring a buddy if possible. If he starts acting inappropriately (sexual harrassment, violent actions or words) speak to the authorities to see if a restraint order is possible.

Unfair layoff...Worked at a company for 23 years on my 24th year a new manager takes over. i get layed off.?

Get a lawyer. Don't sign anything, or your agreeing to their terms and you'll have no case in court.

Stroke survival rates for moderate stroke with brain occlusion?

My mother in law just suffered a sub cortical frontal lobe moderate stroke . I cannot find enough info regarding recurrent stroke, long term survival etc She has a son who lives cross country and was planning to move back in 4-5 months after he is laid off from his job . He is willing to relocate sooner - at great cost ( no layoff no unemployment , with a baby coming) if his time with his mother is seriously limited. Anyone have answers? estimates?

What should I do now?

So yesterday I went bowling with some friends, and there was this really cute girl there. She seemed like the quiet/shy type. I didn't know some of the other people there so I didnt talk much, and her brother was there too. I'm 23 and she just graduated high school so I'm not sure if she is 17 or 18. A friend of mine is friends with her brother and stuff, so I don't want to make things weird for her. I found her through a friend on Facebook. Would it be alright to send her a message or should I just layoff? I don't want to seem creepy or anything. I really am a nice guy

Deadly Passion, will you please C/C?

If I am reading the metaphor for fire correctly, I like what I am reading. Short lines makes this somewhat choppy to me at least but maybe that is what you intended with the uncertainty, the fear of making a commitment, etc.

Who claims what on taxes next year?

I am 29 and due to a layoff last year that significantly reduced my income I was forced to move back in with my parents, I now make 20,000 dollars a year. I also have a three year old daughter that moved with me, whom I have full custody of, but her father has visitation every other week for a full week until September when she starts school and his visitation changes to every other saturday and sunday. My questions are since we (my daughter and I) live with my parents and I pay them no rent, but however am responsible for all my daughter's and my own personal expenses and other bills (ie medical, car, clothing etc) can they claim us? And since my daughter's father does have visitation every other week for the first nine months of the year and then reduced visitation after that should he claim her, even thought the courts have given me full physical and legal custody? Right now I'm claiming zero dependants on my wages because I do not know what the right thing to do is, so any help would be appreciated.

Why go to college, and end up owing $20-80,000 upon graduation?

Did just that, in the '60s. Worked for Corporate America for 24 years. Downsizing resulted in 4,000 layoffs in 1 day. Took up truck driving. Classes then cost $3,000, now $5,000. Made more every year as a driver, ($80-90,000), than as a programmer for 24 years (mid $60s). Technical schools and trade schools should not be overlooked. Should they?

How can I talk to this girl?

So yesterday I went bowling with some friends, and there was this really cute girl there. She seemed like the quiet/shy type. I didn't know some of the other people there so I didnt talk much, and her brother was there too. I'm 23 and she just graduated high school so I'm not sure if she is 17 or 18. A friend of mine is friends with her brother and stuff, so I don't want to make things weird for her. I found her through a friend on Facebook. Would it be alright to send her a message or should I just layoff? I don't want to seem creepy or anything. I really am a nice guy.

Am I correct in what the Republican agenda is??? corporate death panels on health care etc?

But on the other hand you will be able to buy at 'Everyday Low Prices' a Made in China' flag to wave. Besides that the GOP/Teabag/Fox 'News' Axis will encourage the Jesus freaks to wave a cross in your face should you get upset about the institutional poverty of the American wage earner....they'll promise you all that 'pie in the sky when you die'....that should help.

Anyone know a great website to buy feather extensions?

I'm looking for 14" 16" peacock feather extensions. I'm just alittle fearful buying hair online with out an opinion from some one on quality and a great price. Any info will help. :)

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Why does AFL Live suck??? and why are my players never the man in front?

I don't get it I mean who made this game because I tackle teams like literally 80 times in a 20 minute match and the are like 4 free kicks for both sides at the end of the game. So like 160 tackles and 8 free kicks I mean WTF!!! and there is no holding the man rule so they tackle me after I handball or kick it away then they through me to the ground and push my face in the dirt when they are getting up. And how come I am never the man in front like when I have the ball I kick to a player and the opposition are practically leading instead. Because of this I can never stop them working it up the ground. but is there any way I can make the game more like actual gameplay not just tackle ball up and then chase the ball rolling on the ground and have them tackle you strait away because every player has the same pace even if there like short player take on tall player. It's bullsh*t I want a more realistic game what do you think they should do to fix this game?

I feel confused help me?

im mad and scared at the same time.I wanna beat the hell out this guy that said i talk **** about him.i keep tellin him i never talk **** about him.But he wanna belive what he wanna belive.IM mad and pissed at how iignorant he is.But then im fearful to fight him because hes a little crazy.What should i do and why do i feel this way.

I need information on temporary layoff and what my rights is.?

I was informed at work about 3 and a half weeks ago that because of work being quiet i had to be temporary laid off and recieved a letter saying that much and my p45. I was under the understanding it would only be for a week but how wrong was i. The 1st week of my lay off i received �111 pounds but since then nothing. I have been with my current employer for little over 3 years and have no contract so it was never informed about lay offs or that it might happen. Since then i have send my boss a text to ask about work and he said that they are trying to pull jobs forward.....that was 2 weeks ago. I need help as cant afford to wait around anymore and want to do something about this. Any help or advice would be much appreciated.

Will this help me to lose weight? Myoplex...good or bad?

you should try to take PGX its only fibers and it helps you loose weight you can talk to your doctor about it its completly natural

Help! I'm afraid to ride my horse after an extended layoff.?

A little background info. My 12 y/o TB mare fractured her coffin bone 4 months ago and has been on stall rest with limited turnout. The vet has given me the ok to start riding her again for about 10 mins per day, walking only. She's very sweet, but I am still nervous to get on her after such a long vacation. Does anyone have any suggestions to make these first few rides "uneventful"? I would normally lunge her if she was being fiesty, but I am not able to do that due to her recovery. (Trotting on a small circle would put too much stress on the injury) Thank you soo much for any advice.

My GF wants to ride horses together but I am scared?

My gf is a real horse enthusiast and happens to own horses herself. She spends any spare time riding her horse since she lives on farm land. It is a big passion of hers and we have a lot of conversations about her mastering jump courses and whatever skills she is working on. I even went to her horse show last weekend and watched her compete. Here is the problem, she wants me to ride a horse with her by some lake near her house on Saturday and have like a picnic. It sounds really fun and romantic. The problem is that I have never been on a horse before and I am actually a little scared. I guess I am asking, is it difficult to ride a horse at walking pace? I don’t want to let her down and when I told her I never been on a horse but want to learn, she said its super easy to (trail ride). So should I be a little nervous riding a horse for the first time or am I overreacting?

Why are a lot of Republicans (if not the majority of them) against regulations?

The deregulation of US banks caused the last economic recession because banks gave out loans that they knew people couldn't pay back and when they defaulted on these loans and their homes went into foreclosures, the banks lost a lot of money (in a very stupid process). The wasted stimulus money under GWB further wrecked the economy because these businesses had no major regulations in place to limit those CEOs from pocketing the money instead of creating jobs and paying their workers, so they caused job losses through huge layoffs instead.

Is this guy interested in this case?

when we met for the first time, he smiled all the time and also laughed pretty hard at my jokes. also he mirrored my movements quite obviously, like holding glass to drink then putting down few times, then walking pace and other gestures lol. we watched movie and was like i lean to one side with my shoulder crossing leg he did the same later. so is this guy interested in this case as a friend or is it just normal?

LGBT:Do you think America and the world will get better this time so that it really does "get better" for us?

how can you be in the worst recession in history? after recession, it's depression, and we've been in a depression, so i hardly think right now is the worst we've ever been. i think you're a bit paranoid about everything and watch the news too much =/. your grandma is right, i think.

My husband is unreliable....i cant stand it, i have no security in my marriage, i want out!!?

Every job hes had he complains about something. Hes an airline pilot who had a rough time due to layoffs.

Why is this guy like that?

when we met for the first time, he smiled all the time and also laughed pretty hard at my jokes. also he mirrored my movements quite obviously, like holding glass to drink then putting down few times, then walking pace and other gestures lol. we watched movie and was like i lean to one side with my shoulder crossing leg he did the same later. so is this guy interested in this case as a friend or is it just normal?

What is the best way to learn how to speed read?

Hello everyone, I was just wondering if there were any good methods on how to read books/texts at a faster pace. I'm 16 and I really wanna get back into reading good books, but I don't always want to read the good books that are large because it takes me forever to finish them. I just wanna know if there are any good tips on how to start out fresh and how to use these tips effectively. Thank you all who answer :) And when I mean big books, I mean like Twilight (I am not a fanatic), The Overachievers, Harry Potter (also not a fanatic) lol, ya know, like, 400-600 page books.

Can a group of horses running close to full speed stop very suddenly without getting hurt?

Yes it can be done...been there done that. It helps if the horses all know how to stop on their hind end, ie sliding stop. Horses get hurt when they attempt to stop on their front end by jamming their front legs in the ground with a hollowed out back ;-)

Who can muslims blame for Winston Churchill's negative image of islam in 1899?

winston churchhill, because he was a racist xenophobic psychopath, despite what you are taught in history class.

Can I collect unemployment if I chose to voluntarily lay my self off?

Hello thanks for taking the time to help me, so we had a meeting today at work discussing the upcoming weeks and how things were going to run. My work was directly affected by the recent earthquake in Japan. So they are cutting the days of the week to 4 and no more than 32 hour shifts and also gave us the option for voluntarily layoff. The president of the company answered questions at the end and one person asked if we would be able to collect unemployment if we did it, he was told yes but I was just wanting to make sure that it would very likely happen. Thanks for the help!

Trying to find a zumba song, its a flamenco one, its fast paced, sung by a felmale and in the chorus has a guy?

its a flamenco one, its fast paced, sung by a felmale and in the chorus has a guy making a slight barkish noise. in parts of it it sounds like she says roberta but i cant tell.

Every so often I become paranoid, anxious and obsessed with death? Cannot sleep...?

From a spiritual and intuitive perspective...it sounds like you may have experienced something either in the past or in another lifetime where this fear and anxiety has never been dealt with or cleared. Fear is only an illusion, but it will stop you in your tracks as if it is real the more energy you put towards it. To stop this cycle, you can do several things. Call upon the Divine to help you learn what it is you need to learn and ask to have this fear cleared. You can also have Reiki done (an energy clearing) from an energy healer to help initiate this process as well.

Should I take Physics or Biology 2 Junior year?

I took both AP Physics and AP Biology junior year. AP Bio was muchhhhhh easier to me because I am not a very big physics person.

Unemployment Hearing?

I was approved for UI benefits about one month & half ago and now my former employer is contesting my eligibility. I took an authorized leave of absence and was assured that my job will be waiting for me when I return. When I returned I received a e-mail from my boss stating that due to massive layoffs within the company my job was no longer available and that's when I decided to file for unemployment and they are now contesting it. Do I have a strong chance of winning my appeal hearing?

I'm sure I'll obtain responses laced with a hint of dislike, but...?

Ok, you are asking, try this, it seems maybe seeking answers outside of you is not working out. Look inward, read the story for yourself.

All My Children question?? Do you agree or disagree?

The fans aren't making her the villain...the writers are, because she is. She is so self absorbed she is delusional and does whatever and hurts people to get her way. She is no better than David.

With all the horrific bad news about the Obama economy do u think people are getting real depressed?

Houses losing value, car company sales hitting bottom, unemployment rising, layoffs rising, dollar falling, food stamps rising, no hiring I mean it is just a depressing mess isn't it?

Should I address a layoff in my cover letter?

I was in my previous position for 7 years and was terminated very unexpectedly in February, along with 9 other employees, due to a company "restructuring". I have been very active in the job search, and have refreshened my resume and cover letter but I have not had one single call for an interview. I'm wondering if my layoff has something to do with it - maybe prospective employers are assuming I was fired. Should I address this in my cover letter? I considered saying something like "My previous position came to an end due a company restructuring and I am eager to rejoin the workforce" but that just doesn't sound right. Any suggestions?

How is this excerpt from my book?

That's really good. It moves quickly and makes me want to read more of the story. I give it a 9.5. I especially like the depictions such as "sound of the cracks began to crescendo" and "sea of sleep."

When will the Bush economy end?

Another round of layoffs next year? We just got furloughed 5 days. That is without pay! As we look ahead, all we see is republicans fighting to kill jobs. The government can't even function because people are scared. Yet there is hope. At least its not getting worse.

With my current diet and exercise, what am I doing to my body?

You aren't getting enough calories, not even close. You are also very low on protein for the amount of work you are doing.

I have an offer on my house but it makes it a short sale how should I deal with the bank?

Should I try to make a case in my favor: it's the only offer after a year on the market. I may be facing a layoff. Threaten to stop payment. Or just play it cool and see how the bank handles it?

Overtraining issue to blame?

Around Christmas I had problems with overtaining and after many layoffs I finally was able to start rebuilding my running mileage again. I've been feeling great after all my runs and have been feeling like I could go faster than I have been and have really been careful since but lately all the old signs of my overtraining are back (except for decreased performance). I have been under a lot of stress with work aand everything so could it just be that or is it overtraining again?

Best friend since 7th grade, and now I'm experiencing feelings for him...?

That's cute. I think it's normal to fall for someone after living with them for some time. You get to know them in and out. You're like a married couple without the actually intimacy and all the other things the come with marriage. If you like him and he likes you (which it seems he does) go for it! You already know him well enough, so not much will shock you. Good luck.

What started all the teacher layoffs lately?

I live in Texas and that's all I hear on the news lately. I keep seeing different school districts cutting jobs and such. What started all this? Is it going on nationally?

Monday, August 8, 2011

How Often Should A Parrot Get A Bath?

I own a green cheeked conure and he LOVES getting bathes:) It's like a swimming pool to him lol XD But anyways, I was just wondering if it was okay for him to get a bath everyday? He gets one under the faucet:D Also, how can I get my 2 cockatiels to like getting bathes? Lucky, my male cockatiel, was abused and he is very fearful of new things. Thanks, and ay info would be very appriciated:)

How do I pick up the pace?

Considering your gender and age, that 3 mile time is pretty good. Increasing foot speed requires speed workouts (400m reps and 200m reps are the most common) the temp conditions you are running in is not too hot. Humidity is what kills a runner. When your sweat cant evaporate off your skin, your body cant cool down... and you know the rest. Increase speed by running more miles weekly and daily and your body will respond. running is just like building muscle. the more you tear it down, the stronger it will rebuild. Also, running is 90% mental and 10% physical. You have to grit you teeth sometimes and just get MEAN!

Why are some guys so sexist?

I was just wondering why guys think they're so much better than women? I read this one paragraph about how women are not as intelligent, strong, etc. They also think that women that object to them are "jealous" of the superior male. I have a few valid points to make. Yes, SOME men are stronger than women but women CAN be stronger then man. Sure, Man can have more intelligence if they were taught more, but then again, so can women. It depends on what schools you go to and how your brain develops. I also heard that men believe, women can not handle pain. Referring to what I believe they were talking about was *physical* pain. Women have to cope with the pain of child birth which is a very painful process. Coping with physical pain does NOT make men superior. What about *emotional* pain? Not a lot of men can deal with their emotions or "feelings". Yes, throughout history, Men have been known for the best inventions and such but just because they're good at things does not make them the superior species. If men are so much better than women, why are women on the planet? Do any men come to realize with out women their would be no race? Same for women. We ARE equals. Whether you think of it or not, men could not survive with out women and vice versa. Just because men CAN be stronger or more intelligent does not make them better. Same for women. Why do men and women have to be sexist? I can't stand it when men think women are not their equals. I have talked to a few of my guy friends who agree that women are their equals because without each other the human race would die. What about that theory of girls maturing faster then boys? I don't think that theory is true either. Maturity is on how your raised. But if theory is based on the body maturing then still no. Boys and girls develop around the same time and at their own pace.

Why wont my Greyhound walk with me?

My family adopted a female greyhound about 3.5 years ago and I think she is currently 5 years old. She has always been shy and fearful around other dogs but we have also seen her playful side (inside the house). We try to walk her every day and she walks well with my mum and with my dad, and also if there are 2 or more people walking then she has no problem. When I try to walk her she refuses to move. I really don't like doing it but I have to drag her a fair way, until she realises that turning around would be longer than continuing on towards home. My mum gets really annoyed with me because she thinks I am not showing my dominance to the dog, and not walking her correctly or something. She says stuff like 'you hold her on a short leash and when she stops, you say be assertive, say 'no' and keep walking', and I usually end up yelling at my mum because that totally doesn't work and nothing i say to the dog really influences her at all. I just don't know what i'm doing wrong, and how to fix it.

Do you think these 200 will vote for Obama when voting begins in 2012?

They should. Its the republican party that against spending. If I were them I'd vote a straight democratic ticket.

How to get rid of a sty (At least I think it is)?

I have had it already for 10 days and after the fifth day I see no apparent change. It is located in my upper eyelid and no head (that disgusting part where the puss forms) has not shown yet. I am getting fearful it is a straight up cyst but I do not know the difference. I have put warm water compresses and teabags and it still has not gone down. Any suggestions? :(

Plz help!!! why did this happen, i was going to do my road test there a couple of months ago, and i was a bit?

nervous about it on the way down, and when i was in the truck with the driving instructor and i went to the mall and stuff, i got so fearful where i couldn't think my hands were shaking my voice was shaky and it seemed like i just couldn't stay calm in this situation.. what just happened, could soicla anxiety cause this, cuz i think i may have it

Work part-time or not at all?

I just finished my graduate degree, and am looking for full time work. I have money saved ( about a years worth), and recently got offered a part- time job as a contractor. I have no problem working, however I am fearful this PT job will take away from my FT job search ( interviews etc.). Is it best to just take the part time job? Will employers frown upon me working ( thinking I am not avail.)?

Cat had a panic attack?

About an hour ago, my cat was quietly sitting in his bed but suddenly got up and began frantically running around the house and licking his chest and front paws. For about fifteen minutes he was wide eyed and had a fearful expression on his face, but I can't figure out why this happened because the house was quiet and there was nothing that was going on that might spook him. He has CRF and has been a bit lethargic, so I became concerned when he unexpectedly began darting across the room like he was trying to run out of something that was caught on him. He's fine now, but I can't figure out if what is going on is something to be worried about or if it wasn't anything serious.

Why do i get tired steady pace jogging but not as tired with interval sprinting?

I thought Hiit is supposed to be more taxing but running in a steady pace i get gassed much faster? When i am doing intervals i sprint for 1 minute and walk for 1 minute.

Why am I not losing weight?

Okay well I don't know if you'd like to take advice from a 14 year old girl but I have recently lost 26 pounds all by myself!I was 5'3 and weighed 154, now I weigh 128! I was stuck at a certain weight for the longest time so, I had the same problem! First off you may have a slow metabolism. Some ways to speed up your metabolism is eat 6 small meals a day instead of 3 larger meals. Eating six 260-300 calories meals every 2-3 hours boost your metabolism because you keep intaking food, forcing it to work. Another reason why you might not be losing weight is because your body is so used to the same exercise. Try adding another half mile to your workout, it will make a difference. Also, sprinting really fast say for a half a mile burns the SAME amount of calories as running one mile, it's speed that makes the difference, not the distance. If you have trouble tracking your distance run on a treadmill (I personally find it easier than running outside). Last, but certainly not least is keep hydrated with lots of water! I drink about three or four water bottles a day. It flushes out everything in your system and cleans it! I hope I helped! Good luck!

In this time of economic crisis, can the government freeze wages and forbid layoffs for...?

Personally, I would like for it to be forbidden for business executives to receive bonuses or raises in years when they have had mass layoffs but I do NOT think that what you are suggesting is a good idea. The last thing we need is to have businesses go bankrupt meaning that everyone will be out of a job which would make the economy even worse and encourage businesses to hire fewer people when times are good.

Christianity and spanking kids?

Christianity aside, spanking teaches that children that improper behavior has adverse consequences, That is a lesson that every child must learn and have continually reinforced throughout their developmental years. It is not the right, but rather the responsibility, of all parents to teach their children that lesson among others.

Girlfriend wants me to join her horseback riding even though I havent ridden one before?

My gf is a real horse enthusiast and happens to own horses herself. She spends any spare time riding her horse since she lives on farm land. It is a big passion of hers and we have a lot of conversations about her mastering jump courses and whatever skills she is working on. I even went to her horse show last weekend and watched her compete. Here is the problem, she wants me to ride a horse with her by some lake near her house on Saturday and have like a picnic. It sounds really fun and romantic. The problem is that I have never been on a horse before and I am actually a little scared. I guess I am asking, is it difficult to ride a horse at walking pace? I don’t want to let her down and when I told her I never been on a horse but want to learn, she said its super easy to (trail ride). So should I be a little nervous riding a horse for the first time or am I overreacting?

Do desperate times call for desperate measures?

Here's what will happen. You will go, do whatever, abase yourself, you will come back and he will fire you, so all your efforts and humiliation will be for nothing. Keep your self respect and sanity and start lining up another job right now by sending out your resume and posting your resume online at monster and yahoo hot jobs and register at employment agencies. Do not do this, you will feel much worse and it will gain you nothing.

Why are most people so fearful of the suicide?

Hey, if your fine with killing yourself and aren't afraid, then more power to you, but me, I'd like to live my life without thinking about killing myself. Who wants to think about it? It's not rainbows and butterflys man, it's death by your own hand. Nothing wrong with fearing it, it's and understandable fear.

How has the downturned economy affected you ?

I don't get the child support I used to. I get tiny raises at work. My health insurance has gone up. My credit score is like a three. I'm in foreclosure.

Should everyone ignore Mayweather and not even talk about him until he fights Pacquiao or Khan?

And don't give me this about Khan not being good enough yet and is a light - welterweight as Mayweather is not getting any younger, hardly ever fights therefore would be dea rusty and Khan is too big, too fast, too good and has a superb boxing brain as well as the best trainer in the business in Roach. And we all know Pacquiao would defeat Floyd quite badly although I do think Khan would have a chance against his friend and stablemate as Manny isn't getting any younger either but would still beat the aged Mayweather who hardly ever fights whether is b personal problems or ducking opponents. And Khan also proved he can take a punch now after the shots he took against Maidana therefore Khan would just walk through Mayweather's powderpuff punches on his way to a late stoppage or landslide points decision, and that is a fact. I also think Manny wouldn't lose any sleep if Mayweather never fought him as Manny has beating all the biggest names in boxing convincingly whereas Mayweather hasn't. When Mayweather does come back from lengthy layoffs then it is against washed up hasbeens or people he knows he can beat and even then he was nearly floored in the second round in one of them against Mosley lol. And Pacquiao won't mind if Amir beat him as Manny has done it all as I already said whereas a win for Khan over Manny or Mayeather would really set Amir on his way to being the best pound for pound fighter in the world. People like Mayweather are ruining boxing with their ducking tactics and excuses. If he doesn't want to fight all the biggest names when they are young and hungry then he should at least be a man and admit it instead of treating his fans and the public in general like fools. Names Mayweather never fought in the past and names he won't fight today are: the legendary Morales at super - featherweight, the legendary Barrera at super - featherweight, Cotto right now, Margarito right now, Khan, the future of the sport at welterweight right now or in the near future and the best fighter in the world in Pacquiao right now. Manny has beaten all of them and also destroyed Hatton and De la Hoya easier than Mayweather did. Plus Khan beat Barrera as well a couple of years ago albeit due to a bad cut and Marco was 34 but Manny is nearly 33 and Mayweather is nearly 35. And as we saw last week Manny beat another fighter easier than Floyd did in Mosley. Manny probably carried Mosley to draw Mayweather out of hiding lol. I predicted a 4th round victory for Manny last week and it looked to be going that way when Shane went down heavy in that 3rd round. And Pacquiao should and could have also stopped Margarito last November if he really wanted to.

A question for all about depression and anxiety ...?

i was just going to ask ... does any one know the types of fearful thoughts that anxiety brings when you have that disorder?..does it make you make up things.. does it create thoughts in your mind?..n if it does.. how is this posssible?

Is the US economy REALLY going to improve & recover eventually this time as we have from past recessions?BELOW?

Why don't you start by examining the data. Your history teacher did. You can too. We have had almost 24 months of consecutive growth. GDP is at an all time high. In economics that IS a recovery.

My anxiety disorder has really affected my self esteem, advice please?

I to sufferd from anxiety disorders and severe panic attacks, there was a point I never left the house and coudnt eat I lost 1 stone in 2 weeks and was getting really depresed. I thought I was going to be like this forever. I was offerd help and meds but the thot of them made me worse. I went to hell and back to get rid of my anxiety disorder It was mentaly the hardst time of my life but one day something just clikd in my mind and I relised wat was really happning to me. I still get th odd fealing of anxiousness in a nervous situation but havnt took a panic attack in years, it will go away even if it feals like it won't if you can train ur brain to be stronger and learn fully wat ur body is doing wen a panic attack takes place it helps a lot. The friend you had is not worth having if they left you like that, some ppl don't understand anxiety fully and think its "all in your head" wich it technically is but its so much more than that to a suffer its very much real and frighting. You shouldnt feal down about this, its obviously not ideal but the more u get anoyied and down about it th worse ull feal. My panic attacks just stopd, u need to be positve and stay happy. Keep busy be around positve ppl not negitve ones. Ppl who make you feal bad about urself are not worth having, even if you were close to them. Plenty off ppl will stik by u regrdless if there a true friends. I had a friend who has sat up with me thru nites, walkd out the cinema, drove me to hospital( got stoped from police becoz speeding lol) and a lot more lol all becoz of my stupid panics. Your panic attacks WILL stop. Your in control of your body and mind never forget that,even tho it dosnt seem like that just now but u are.

What is a layoff through attrition?

I was wondering if this was a term they taught in business school. I see many corporations use this term. Though, I think they might make it excruciatingly difficult to work in the organization and this difficulty is what leads to attrition. Please share some insight with me.

How do you get a Payday Advance loan?

I had lost my job a couple of months ago due to budget layoffs and times have been hard but I just recently got a really good job. The things is I have a electricity bill that has to be paid in a couple of days or it gets turned off but my first payday isn't for a week so I was wondering how do I get a payday advance? Do I have to have good credit?I live in Bakersfield, Ca if that matters.

My fear of dogs has now increased?

Do you have a family member with a sweet gentle medium sized dog that could do "therapy" with you by you throwing treats to himas some one holds him on a leash and than you let him sniff you then you pet him and he be reatraned the whole time so you would feel safe maybe? If not you may want some profecinal therapy if you don't want to hate dogs or you may not be a dog person. Good luck

Dont know what to go to college for?

Im graduate next year and want to go to college im just not sure what to major in. I though about nursing. And i love science and history. I also want to major in something that has a high demand and wont suffer from major layoffs in the future.

Any Petroleum Engineers Out Here? (Oil Worker Fine too)?

I wouldn't try to predict past 2025, so you likely have a few good years. Lots of people made tin plated steel, 70 years ago, but it is near zero today, but zinc and cadmium plated steel is still in considerable demand. Perhaps you should specialize in algae in transparent pipes, which could supply half of our diesel and heating oil by 2030. Neil

Do desperate times call for desperate measures?

Ordinarily people with rigid moral standards would tell you not to trade in your values for financial gain and security by being the boss' "sweet little whore". Unfortunately we live in a society with few, if any, safety nets in the event you lose your job. So many people (especially single women with kids) do things they ordinarily wouldn't do Frankly, I wouldn't do it because it can have later consequences, such as word getting out that you spent a wild weekend with your boss to get ahead. It's up to you. If you decide to do this, I would look elsewhere for a job as soon as possible.

Where could I find a self paced, anytime enrollment online trigonometry course?

In order to skip my high schools pre-calc course, and move directly to calc, I need to take an online trig course, could you help me find one?

Can you claim UI in ca after layoff, if you have a small business too but draw no salary from it.?

I have an income generating fastfood restaurant as sole properitership but i do not work there and draw no salary from there but draw income.

I get cold when running?

i run about 5 to 6 miles a day, 6 days a week, 15 year old girl. after about 3 miles at like a 7 or 8 minute pace, (even in the blazing sun 90 degree weather), i start to get chilled and freezing when i run and my skin even feels cold. i think its because im dehydrated, is this true? one time after i ran, i stayed cold for 4 hours after

Can I omit these positions? or what would be the best way to put them on a resume?

The year 2010 was scattered with work that really didn't last i had jobs any where from 1 week to 1 month before I got a job I was at for 6 months before having to leave for scheduling issues with school. I don't bother putting the 1 week on a resume because it was only a week and the company went through a layoff right after I was hired, before that I left a position at the end of 3 week training because it wasn't what I was told the job would be, but i left my previous job that i was there for a year with for them. There was one that was a seasonal position for 1 month. can I omit all of those extremely short positions between march to october?

Why are people so fearful?

I'm very small and short but I'm fearless. I have no fear of people at all. And I like to stare people down in the eyes until they look away. Some people seem very fearful or scary I noticed. Why are some people so fearful? Are you fearful?

Is lack of confidence stealing my joy?

Beginning last year a developed a huge crush on someone and for the past year i've been emotionally abusing myself to get his attention wanting him to like me.Through this year I've been depressed,anxious and fearful just downing myself and I even let him still my joy away.Even though I cut all ties with him i'm still holding on to the negative thoughts and emotions and now i'm afraid of feeling good and joyful.Could this be lack of confidence,not trusting myself with joy and just thinking negative?

Can help me to fill in this question?

From what I remember in History class, they were fearful of having another king, or a federal government that was too powerful, so they gave the states more power.

Shoul i make my film studies in California or in New York?

i need help, i'm french and i don't know about the best area to do film studies and the different reputations of the universities. with my exchange program, i don't have much choice but i hesitate with SFSU, Pace University and CUNY Brooklyn College. Thank you for helping, if you're a student from any of these 3 universities or if you just have a good advice please, feel free to answer!

Sunday, August 7, 2011

1 year old Shih-tzu Maltese suddenly fearful of things?

He is suddenly showing different fears. Last week, we walked in the park and at the other end was an empty large flower pot which had him shaking. Last night and today, he went past a stack of sod in the neighborhood clearly very scared. Not sure what is going on and if something has happened. Not sure how to help him. Not sure how to investigate if something happened. Otherwise, he is the most confident dog

Why does risperdal make me become a brainless zombie?

Risperidone (risperdal) as with nearly all anti psychotics has sedating properties as a side effect. Other common side effects is insomnia, muscle stiffness and weight gain, all of which would go in some way to feel 'zombie-ish'. If you have been on risperdal for a while and it is having a negative impact on your life, you should speak to your doctor/psychiatrist to change to an alternative medication.

First job tomorrow but i'm scared!?

I"ve never worked and im afraid i'll screw so many times on something. I feel so stupid and plus im very forgetful like i forget almost everything and it sucks. Im 20 and for some reason im scared. Im working at subway but its a fast paced job but the problem is im a slow worker everything, even in school. Im supposed to be working the cash register tomorrow but im terrible math like so so bad so im scared about that and cooking and getting everything done quickly is gonna be even harder for me. I so stressed out right now just thinking about this. I mean what if i get yelled at because i can't complete a job on time and even doing right. I also have ADD which is problem. My parents said i have to work sooner or later but i terrified and i feel like im gonna pass out. I have social anxiety too. The say that i'm dumb, stupid, waste of time, worthless, lazy, and my brother calls me a bum and then tells me t grow up. My dad says that im irresponsible. I feel horrible about tomorrow and about myself. What do i do?

How do I get over my male ego?

I know the male ego can be a bad thing and a hindrance to a relationship. My wife put me down quite a bit, told me I'm not good (future) father material, flirted openly with other men, exposed her body to two young men one of whom had a laugh and a good time of it at my expense (he was late teens or early 20s, I'm not sure) and basically said I don't earn enough money. She was going through a rough spot, was threatened with a layoff and had lost a close relative. So I tried to cut her some slack and talk it all through. But my ego is shot, I feel resentment, even of the fact that I had to do all the work to get us back on track. She is happy again and sings my praises often, though she does break down now and then and lash out at me, not with anger but with condescension and a seeming lack of respect. How does a man get past his ego? Other than marital counseling, what will help me move on?

Best way to socialize 12 week old puppy?

Well there are lots of things to try. Try having the dog meet your friends first. She will sense how comfortable you are with that person and be more likely to be comfortable around them. One of the most important things you can get it used to is being touched. Even if you use a collar instead of a harness, buy a harness. Then about two times a day take it off and put it on the puppy for a couple of weeks. This will get the puppy used to being touched other than petting.

How do I recover my pride to be a good husband?

I know the male ego can be a bad thing and a hindrance to a relationship. My wife put me down quite a bit, told me I'm not good (future) father material, flirted openly with other men, exposed her body to two young men one of whom had a laugh and a good time of it at my expense (he was late teens or early 20s, I'm not sure) and basically said I don't earn enough money. She was going through a rough spot, was threatened with a layoff and had lost a close relative. So I tried to cut her some slack and talk it all through. But my ego is shot, I feel resentment, even of the fact that I had to do all the work to get us back on track. She is happy again and sings my praises often, though she does break down now and then and lash out at me, not with anger but with condescension and a seeming lack of respect. How does a man get past his ego? Other than marital counseling, what will help me move on?

Would you take this swimming pool survey ?

I'm not exactly sure what your question is, but I got the exact same results as you and it fits me to a T. How you get into a swimming pool reflects your lifestyle, I'm not sure, but it is true.

I have to write a sonnet with the words given by our teacher here are the words ,star,lovely,far,lonely,abov?

star,lovely,far lonely,above beautiful,dove fearful,sad,free,bad,see,sight,light hope to help me it will be pass on monday thanks

Are fear and understanding a Ying-Yang of a different color?

Fear of something usually comes from a lack of understanding. While a lack of understanding, can cause you to be fearful. And it's also possible, that enough understanding of something could reveal a legitimate reason to be afraid of it. While at the same time, enough fear could cause you to develop your own understanding of something.

I SWEAR I THINK I FELT LICE CRAWLING IN MY HEAD?

I am extremely, extremely fearful of getting lice. I'm going to give you all of the details right here, right now. Dry skin and dandruff runs in my family, particularly my mothers side. I have dandruff as well, and occasionally, i also see dandruff on my brothers head. My dandruff is much, much better now, but my head still itches every once in a while. I don't usually worry about lice, but a couple of days ago, my head got itchy, and i immediately got paranoid and thought it was lice. I was so scared. So, 24/7, i am fearful about the possibility of lice in my hair. Does thinking about lice automatically make a person feel itchy? Because i am thinking about lice right now and even just thinking about those little tiny F***ers makes me feel itchy all over. I swear, i think i just felt something crawl in my hair. Is it lice? Or is there a possibility that it's my dandruff coming back with a vengeance? Or is it just my extreme paranoia?

Can anyone please help me to get out of this extremely depressing situation in my life?

Your past is your past. It's part of who you are and it's shaped you into who you are now. From what I can tell you're happy with who you have become for the most part. There's nothing you can do to erase the memories of the past. What you should do is embrace the past and use it to help you move forward with your life. Of course you're going to be nervous for a job interview! who wouldn't be?! But, get out and go for it. It's the only way you'll move on, and this is the best medicine for forgetting your past. You won't look back on it with so much pain then.

If i run more often will my face turn less red?

Im doing cross country, and my face turns reallly red when im running. (i know there is nothing i can do about it.) I drink enough water. so if i keep running at the same pace and the same distance...will my face stop looking really red?

What's the name of the song where the guy talks about not stayin with one girl?

i don't remember the name of the song or any lyrics. i just remember the video of a guy with glasses, tattoos, and gauges talking about how he's young and going to live his life. i'm pretty sure the video takes place in a hotel room. it was fast paced and said some bad words.

Can you help me with this math problem?

John ran the 100-m dash with a time of 9.88 seconds. If this pace could be maintained for an entire 26-mile marathon, what would be his time?

Getting a degree with learning disability?!?

I am 24 and not yet done with my degree. I have one college algebra course until I get my Associates (already walked, but need that class). My local university won't allow me to go any further until I finish that algebra. I have a severe case of dyscalculia and can't find another fully online math course so I can go at my own pace. If I finished math I would have about 1 year to go. I am so embarrassed and super jealous of anyone with a degree or "real" job. My math stupidity is holding me back and otherwise I have a 3.5 gpa! (so I am not stupid.)... What online programs (In Texas and public schools) will allow me to do my degree completely online? I am so lost!

Worst day ever with your horse?

My worst day was when I was at a show and my horse refused 3 times and then I finally fell off and he got out of the arena and took off, after a while they caught him :)

Mortgage Loan Modification/Chapter 7 or 13?

Hello, 2 1/2 Years back I got a Home. I had a job that paid me 14 an hour (50hr work-week). Unfortunately after the economy crashed and Layoffs took place. I've now been through 2 jobs and now i earn half of what i used to... Point is I've had a lot of trouble keeping up payments of my home. I need to know if there's anyway I can get home debt relief and keep my house. Miraculously I have a perfect record of payments, never been late, but now my bank accounts are completely empty and I can't postpone it any longer, I don't have any other debt's except for my home mortgage. I have 1 car and a (old project car). That's all I own & I can't lose them. Please help with suggestions....

Is it realistic to run a successful business, and still love to play video games?

I personally think soo.... I mean, vidoe game consultants and testers get paid alot to do it and i would take the governement job and learn your family business so you get experience with all the workload and everything

How to jog when I'm tired?

I have to jog for 2 hours a day (120 minutes), on 5.0 speed which is a paced speed. The thing is, I get to about 50 minutes and I want to stop. I've once reached an 90 minutes but I had to stop because I was interrupted, so I know this is a task I'm physically able to do, it's just that I really don't want to do it. I try everything to pass the time, listen to music, watch TV, even put my head down and close my eyes on the grip bar. But all those techniques last for about 7 minutes. and it's just sooooo tiring, but I want to lose weight and get healthier. I also want to do a non stop jog, since that's the best way to help the heart. Is there any psychological exercises that make your mind not think about time, or go into some trance (LOL i'm that desperate) because I would really do anything to be able to do these two hours. And I have to do this everyday.

Financial Aid and Grants?

My employer is closing the center and the end of the year. My department will be closed no later than August 1st. I want to go back to school to earn a degree in Sports Marketing and Media. I know I made 36k for 2010. Though after August the only income I will have coming in is from my part time job (only work there once a week), will FASFA only go by my 2010 taxes in which I filed or will the layoff be a factor in determining grants as well? I really don't want to take out any loans but if this is my last option then I will.

How do I get rid of my Barefoot Shyness?

I am 16 years old and for the past 5 or 6 years I have been afraid to go barefoot around anybody, even sometimes my family. Its summer and I really want to start to go barefoot. Can someone give me tips on how to get rid of this and how to start at a gradual pace!! Please!!

What is a good way to learn French at a good steady pace?

go to yahoo translate, in the language in which you are translating your English phrase, the pronunciation is available. Too easy. The pronunciation is also pretty good.

Why did my boss act like I was fired when I actually was laid off?

Call HR and tell them you want to review and have copies made in regards your files. Inform them that you will pay for the copies. If there is something that does not look right, then you get a lawyer to review it.

What does this monologue mean?

I suck at Shakespeare, but go to No Fear Shakespeare (a href="http://www.sparknotes.com/shakespeare/titus)" rel="nofollow"http://www.sparknotes.com/shakespeare/ti…/a and find the monologue, they have a side-by-side Shakespeare to modern English that is very handy :)

Notice period policy ruining my career and I fixed !!! plz help?

If you are in the US there is little the company can do to make you stay. If you are in some other company you need to let us know.

"ROUGH N TOUGH LIFE N SURVIVED IS WORTH THAN MONEY"?

defintifly hardly for this to the answer what my thought is a many positive important r survived is lot worth as much possilby than the money is unworths because of the money is easy hurting even risks get lot debt or loans or get job some time waste time money bec some most sadly layoff lose Jobs nor a other the reasons causing . (NOT FUN MONEY) is always .... Thinking of survived n worth it is a positives n sometime populartion homeless who get lose of jobs or a debt bec loans is too much part of invited fanicing too that not good for ppls get loans or a any reasons who cannot affordable payment debts or a other many . if who can affordable it example of compare it is completely rough for ppls some unlucky some lucky but always untrue .. even nomatter what it'll causing realized not fun the money nor credit cards too My guess answer the part money n credit cards is very UnHealthy thing can damage those ppls's lived... it should think keep survived is very worths nomatter what positive!! my advise to those !

Saturday, August 6, 2011

HOW MANY POUNDS CAN I LOSE IN 8 WEEKS? 10 points?

I Really want to lose between 24-30 pounds, I started my diet today & it was horrible:( but I going to do better tomorrow, I'm now at 216 pounds & 5'6 or 5'7, I'm OBESE & I want to be at 180-190 before august 15, & then I'll slow down the weight loss pace, I'm playing golf,tennis & soccer & I'm also trying to lose this weight for a wedding in September. & I was wondering can i lose 3-4 pounds a week since I'm obese & overweight ? I jog on the treadmill, elliptical & stair master machine 4-5 days a week & walk for 30 mins-1 hr on the weekend & when I'm working out my calorie intake will be 1500-1800 & when I'm NOT It'll be 1200-1400.......... && NOOO I'm not trying to be like 100-120 pounds like these crazy teenager girls out here, I just want to be at 160 pounds again (: thanks

On pokemon fire red, what pokemon should i replace and what should i replace them with?

Hitmonchann he is a relly bad pokemon so take him out thats why i dont goto the dojo for the pokemon i go for the battles but you can breed it with the ditto and get the first evolucian

Need help finding a song?

im trying to find a song that is medium paced not that older most likely 2008 and up and is pop ( i think not sure) it has a sort of electronic piano sound in the beginnning that plays in the chorus as well i think it goes a little something like this do do do do do doooo weeee do - do wee do do do probally wont help you lol. i think one of the words was skylight i could be totally wrong PLEASE HELP ME!!!

I am a VERY fearful person and I need it to stop immediately?

just always think, life is short so live it to the fullest.. dont care about little things just enjoy life

Why am I so fearful of men?

Okay, so I'm 13. My mom's bf is nice & good to her and all that. I'm terrified of him. Also, all other men. Even in my family. I'm petfried of my Dad.. Is this caused by abuse? Also, I'm not what so ever afraid of any women I know. Plus, if a guy touches me like hugging I flip out. I scream and cry/ kick and do whatever it takes to be let go. No rude comments please. Thanks<3

Can I lose 20 lbs by the middle of September just from walking everyday and eating healthy?

This sounds pretty workable... I would watch your intake and switch it up occasionally as you have no dairy and not a lot of protein in this diet. Good luck!!!

What to do with the teacher layoffs? Protest?

We're dealing with teacher layoffs in California too (as is much of the country). The problem is that no one has the budget to pay for the teachers, and no one wants to pay more in taxes to make it possible. There is really very little point in protesting locally, because the school districts have no desire to lay off teachers - they just don't have any choice, given the budget cuts they have to make. You could protest at the state capitol (in your case, Austin), but it is really too late. I'm sick about it too, but there is very little we can do if no one is willing to pay more in taxes.

Do all Christians believe that the bible gives clear indicators for the Last Days?

The Bible never says when the world will end. In fact, it says that man will never know the exact time. Even Jesus doesn't know. Only god. The Bible just talks about what will happen in the end times, and they are very extreme things and would be noticed righ away. In other words... the end is not nigh. I think this is what you were asking...?

Who is the best catcher in the National League and why?

I think Yadier Molina because of his defensive ability, I don't think there have been any power hitting catchers in the National League this year. I'm usually better than I've been this year at keeping pace with all the teams, who do you think is the best catcher in the National League this year and why? (bat? defense? etc?)

What is good running music?

I like fast paced stuff for running. I normally listen to bands like green day but all suggestions are welcome. If it matters, my runs usually take about 30 min.

Why does xbox live lag so bad?

Well you kinda knocked out every suggestion i think anyone could give you, the only one other thing i can think of is something wrong with your xbox

My dog who sleeps with me, woke me at 3am barking like crazy...?

I have a small dog who sleeps on my bed. This night at 3pm i was woken by my dog barking loudly staring at the doorway. I assumed her barking because she could hear my daughter walking up the hallway to come and sleep with us. So i turned my head to look at the doorway expecting to see my sleepy daughter only to my shock saw very clearly a very tall white ghost of a very old lady, the image was looking at the dog barking madly and seemed to be moving its head around in a very confused manner,i could also feel the energy and it was quite bright also. There was no anger, or ill will felt from the ghost but i was petrified just the same. In absolute fear and shock i turned my head to face the other way and could see it in the mirror, with the dog still barking i watched in a fear i have never experienced before, thinking how do i get it to go away, i then shook my doona and yelled out to my daughter, and it faded away. I lay there a while till i had the courage to turn on lights and check on my daughter who was sound asleep. i have lived in this unit 5 years and have never had anything like this happen before, i am now very fearful and am wondering why it came to me. My intuition tells me it was lost or confused and was not there for me! It did not feel familiar, nor did it feel to have any message or omen. So what would have made it visible to me and my dog? I am filled with questions that cannot be answered and am totally freaked out! Would appreciate any views you may have.. Regards Jo C....

Is lack of confidence stealing my joy?

Beginning last year a developed a huge crush on someone and for the past year i've been emotionally abusing myself to get his attention wanting him to like me.Through this year I've been depressed,anxious and fearful just downing myself and I even let him still my joy away.Even though I cut all ties with him i'm still holding on to the negative thoughts and emotions and now i'm afraid of feeling good and joyful.Could this be lack of confidence,not trusting myself with joy and just thinking negative?

When was the Silicon Valley, California, dot com bust?

I am trying to find out when the dot com bust was in the Silicon Valley. I found on some sites that it was from 1995 to 2000 and was hoping someone could either verify this or dispute it please. I know that we are currently in a recession now, and am not wondering about that, just when the first waves of layoffs happened in the mid 1990's. Thanks for any help!

Traumatized Cat need help..?

I've had my cat for like 6+ months. He was a little timid at first, but changed almost immediately. he never was one to scratch, or bite. he was always playing or sleeping and liked contact.Today he was at my moms(usually at dads), and she had with dogs who he plays with, and i let the dogs out because he doesnt like being picked up when they can see him.lol. well i picked him up, he wasnt to happy but nothing serious, went to the couch and then he started to claw, (try to escape), and i just grabbed his scruff(very lightly). Usually settles him right down. well then he out of nowhere went nuts and scratched me and then bit me, hissed and ran. I was leaking pretty bad, he got me good. I went over to pet him to tell him its okay calm down, and he was scared. So i went and showered and washed my wounds, and figured it was time to try to tell him again its ok. He was absolutely traumatized and was very scared of me, and went to a corner and just stayed there. He was scared to move, and watched everything i did. I finally got to him and just sat and petted him for like 15 minutes, but we was terrified. And i rarely hit my cat, and when i do he laughes in my face. I usually just flick his ear or something tiny. He finally left, went upstairs in a crazy run out of pure fear, and then slept on the bed. I went in and he woke up, he seemed fine for a split second, but he was still terrified. He then let me pet him again, but was very fearful. Pupils are still dialated... after a few attempts of me going and petting him, while i was watching tv he came down the stairs and ate. he then went into his room(my brothers) and layed there. I went in and he was still scared. I kept going in and sitting with him and petting and talking to him, and he seemed to be getting somewhat better. This is like 10 hours after the incident and he was still scared. I went in later, and even though he is still traumatized and very aware of every movement, he started to purr this time. I then tried to pick him up, not towards my face, just from ground onto bed. he was alright but once he hit the bed he went wild again. He just ran off and hid. I went over to his cowering, and after a bit he started to purr. I let him be again. I went in later with my mom, and he was more reluctant and scared, but eventually purred. I thought maybe he broke something like a rib, but he was starting to roll on him back for belly rubs, and I felt his ribs and he did nothing. I may have gripped him hard n his side or something when he started to scratch, just out of reflex, but he seems not injured. I would like to know what you think it could be, if youve ever experienced this, and what i should do. Im seriously considering a vet visit. Any questions and ill answer. i just want my cat back. If you dont have any info, i could really use some spirit lifting. He is a great friend and i just want my friend back. He was bought from the shelter, and he definatley had been hurt before, but his attitude was like nothing ever happened.

If i get take a medical layoff will i be eligible for unemployment in Washington state?

I fought and won a battle with cancer in 2009, but my current job has me working with chemicals that are known to cause cancer. My doctors agree that i should not be around them, since they consider me high risk. I am able to perform all functions for other jobs, except chemical use. I am unable to transfer to another job permanently. My only other option is medical layoff. Would i be eligible for unemployment benefits?

Question for Malky Malky-I previously asked the question in regard to small engines.?

I DID NOT LEAVE OFF THE GUIDE PULLEY TENSION SPRING AT THE BACK AS YOU STATED. MY QUESTION-- I HAD A BEARING FAILURE IN THE GEAR BOX OF MY TORO PERSONAL PACE MOWER. IT TOOK OUT THE RING GEAR AND PINION. I REPLACED THE WHOLE GEAR BOX & AXEL SHAFT. IT CAME IN AN ASSEMBLY. SINCE REPLACING IT, I CANNOT SEEM TO GET THE MOWER TO RUN IN THE GRASS. ON CONCRETE IT GOES FINE, NOT IN THE GRASS. I REPLACED THE BELT. THE SPRING IS ATTACHED TO THE ARM THAT MOVES THE GEAR BOX ,ROTATING THE GEAR BOX ON THE AXEL WHICH TIGHTENS THE BELT. THE SPRING IS FASTENED TO THE CABLE AND IS NOT REMOVABLE. WHEN THE COVER OF THE BEARING WENT THROUGH THE RING AND PINION, IT TOOK THE TEETH OFF OF THEM. THE MOWER WOULD GO BUT THE GEAR BOX GROWLED TERRIBLE. IT STRETCHED THE BELT CIRCUMFERENCE APPROXIMATELY 1/4 INCH MORE THAN A NEW BELT. I WONDER IF IT COULD ALSO HAVE STRETCHED THE SPRING OR CABLE NOT ALLOWING IT TO FULLY ROTATE THE GEAR BOX ON THE AXEL SHAFT.

What do you think the poem means?

It sounds like some act of war. An invasion by another country, and the people feel like the world is ending, and must protect their children, and the sun swarming the sky may be bombs. And then they just return home after all the destruction is done, and everyone has now lost their comfort and security. Great job, I really loved it!

Why did my company tell me I had an unemployment claim when I was laid off?

At my layoff meeting in March my company assured me that I would have an unemployment claim right away so that i could pay my bills until I could find another job(6 months). I then went to the state of PA and was told that I do not have a claim until July so I now have no money coming in for April,May,June. I feel like my company lied to me just to get me out of the building. What should I do?

How many people do you know that have zero forms of ID which would prohibit them from being able to vote?

In my voting area it used to be required to show a Voter Registration card. That hasn't been the case for several years. It's caving in to PC that caused the problem.

Is it easier to be a criminal these days with all the police layoffs?

No, it is actually harder because there is so much more electronic surveillance, Most cars, credit cards and even cash can be tracked much more easily and video is everywhere watching everybody

Why does my cockatiel suddenly fear me?

birds go through puberty just like humans. when they go through puberty then they can become irritable and aggressive even toward there long time owners. my dads friend nearly lost an eye handling his beloved bird while it was going through puberty. be patient and wait it out this phase will pass but it will take time and your support.

Why cant politicians understand that many of the jobs that were lost are never going to come back?

Not so long as the libreals keep adding more and more regulations and taxes to businesses. Why should they? No other nation on earth taxes its businesses as much as does the USA. That fact alone makes anyplace else rather attractive. The worst part is that liberals are all for making it still worse and then they turn around and blame the businesses for sending jobs offshore.

Has anyone ever been in this situation?

Just the other day rumors started flying about temporary layoffs because of the Japan crisis. I have worked for this plant twice already. The last time the mention of temporary lay offs came up it turned in to full blown layoff. I was lucky and got my job offered back to me after three months because the guy who got stuck on my shift quit. Now the rumors are flying again...and since I got laid off I have lost all of my seniority and I'm back on the chopping block again. In an odd twist somebody else called and offered me a job that I applied for over two years ago. Any ideals on where to go from here?

Has anyone re-located to Phoenix from another city?

Has anyone re-located to Phoenix from another city? How was/is your experience? I currently live in Chicago (born & raised) and am thinking of relocating. I live in the inner city and am used to lots of noise, plenty people, and a vast of activities and places to see at all times/hours of the day. I know I can't expect Phoenix to be as fast paced as it is here in Chicago and my options of entertainment might be limited but that's fine as I'm looking for something more low-key for my family (I have two young children). How are the people? Are they friendly? We (here) have heard so many stories about Arizona government and officials, I know some must be exaggerations..are people racist toward latinos? Excuse me for being offensive but I don't want my family to be judged upon either (well, beyond the normal amount). How are the jobs? Schools? Restaurants (we are self labeled "foodies")? How is the crime? Please remember that while we live in one of the most notorious neighborhoods in Chicago we still feel safe and take comfort in knowing our community. Any word of advice will be greatly appreciated. (Yes, I know..beware the heat lol! For a girl that hates the winter I'll take 100 degrees any day...you try shoveling 20 inches of snow..ugh, never again!!!)

How do you force a stubborn dog to obey heel command?

open it's mouth and put your tongue on their it should relax him and then you pick him up and put him in a hover round and then go

Summer cross country training?

Hi, I run cross country for Lockport high school in NY and this upcoming season is going to be my last. Last year I ran an 18:40( I think I could of went around a 18:10ish). In track I ran a 4:57 mile and a 11:07 2 mile( again I think I could of gone a bit faster if I learned to push myself better. This year i want to run a 17:00 in cross country. The past couple weeks i've been running around 7 to 8 mile a day at around 7:30 to 8:00 minute mile pace. Around 50 miles a week. And have been doing mile repeats at around 6 minutes after my 7 mile runs. I also just started working out push ups sit ups planks leg lifts etc. I would like for someone to tell me what I should be doing to reach my goal of 17:00 in the xc 5k or any advice and tips are greatly appreciated. Thank you

Friday, August 5, 2011

Tax question. How low must your AGI be to pay no taxes?

AGI is BEFORE the itemized deductions and pesonal exemption. Using your figures, your taxable income is roughly $8150 and the tax bill is 10% of that.

If you only had $60 ppv money, which one would you watch,Mayweather vs Ortiz or Pacquiao vs Marquez?

This is Mayweather's comeback after over a year layoff! So many fans are excited! But at the same time Pacquiao and Marquez have been exciting fighters and has some unfinished business that most fans have waited for.

So im flying out to Waikiki tomorrow for about 6 days... can anyone help clear up a few things I've heard?

1. Yes, many from Japan and the Chinese are coming, 2. Locals are fond of nice people period. 3. No, you can find out of the way places to eat and buy things. Example you can buy breakfast in your hotel for $40 for the buffet or you can go out on the street in Waikiki and find a nice full breakfast for $5 - $9. You can buy souvenirs at the hotel or ABC store and pay a fortune or you can go the Aloha Stadium flea market. 4. Don't know. 5. Part of Waikiki yes, parts no, part near Hilton Hawaiian Village far end no, down by Diamond Head no. 6. No. 7. Yes, Vacation towns are in no rush. 8. Yes but more on the north shore and in the center, not Waikiki or the southern side of the island. 9. Don't know 10. Sharks yes, north shore, jelly fish no, this is not Florida 11. Not many one spot on the North Shore where one or two may come up. 12. HIke up Diamond Head. 13. Can't help you here.

I want to know how many calories I am burning if there is a calculator or some sort?

I am approximately 137 lbs, 5'4", I run a mile in about 7 minutes, I want to know how many calories I am burning for each mile at the 7 minutes mile pace. I cannot find a calculator that is specific enough, thanks.

Are there alternatives for testifying in court other than appearance for a subpeona?

My husband witnessed an accident in MS 2 yrs ago. Now we live in TN and have absolutely no financial means to get there to testify. He wants to do the right thing but between layoffs we are barely able to afford rent and groceries much less days off and a 2 day trip hundreds of miles away. Plus we no longer have a vehicle to make it there. He is to polite to argue with the lawyers and I'm technically not involved but I can't stand by and lose my house, car, and ability to buy food when he did nothing but try to help someone.

Any helpful advice/perspective? I can't find a therapist who doesn't strike me as kind of dumb...?

Bundle all these worries. Keep them in abeyance for a few months. In the meantime, please learn some techniques for physical self-discipline, mental control, and social orderliness. If possible, try to join Yoga classes where they teach lot of physical exercises along with mental exercises to keep your body and mind strong, trim and fit.

Why do bad things happen to good people?

We live in such a fast paced world. Also we seem to be under the metallity of"all about me". We all need to be kind to each other instead of being selfish.

Will failing one class kill my chances of getting into a good graduate school?

Is it too late for you to withdraw? You might want to look into that. If not, though, I don't think it'll be a dealbreaker. There's usually a place on the application where you can clarify any issues in your academic record. You can just explain that you wanted to stretch yourself, but you got in over your head despite your best efforts and the experience really reaffirmed that [chosen program] was what you were meant to do. They'll probably conclude that themselves if it's a total outlier compared to the rest of your record, but it helps to give your side of the story. (Alternatively, you could retake the class or at least take a similar elective that's more forgiving to non-science majors, but I don't think it's worth it if there's other stuff you need/want to take instead.)

How to lose weight in 2 months without exercise equipment?

Hi my name is Pauline I am 14 years old and I am 5'1 and summer brake is here. But I know that I don't have much time to exercise because I have a summer school but I am planning to go jogging after my school is done like after 3:00 or something like 3 times a week. Well I can keep up my pace when I go jogging. Like I can jog the whole track n field oval for 5 times without stopping. But the things is I get lazy sometimes so I just stay at home. And now I am controlling all of the food that I eat. The thing is I am still fat. I weight 130 and my goal is 125 or 120 before the school start again. I need some advice please help me. I want to lose some of my stomach fat and also my waist and hip and my face too XD basically I just want to be more fit. So I can wear any clothes that I want not just staying in one size. Thank you very much.

If JON didn't have multiple layoffs would he have overtaken Sean G or blogbaba as the no.1 answerer?

He had multiple layoffs last year and this year for many months. But when he was active, he was just phenomenal in his answers. Plus he is able to answer most boxing questions regardless of era or boxing regions, or fantasy match ups.

Texas Teachers Alternative Teaching Program...Help!!!?

Anyone ever use this program? Is it a good program? Will it be hard to find a job in Houston after I complete the program? Anyone from Houston know if it will be hard since they have had all the layoffs? Do you know of any districts in need of teachers? You don't have to know all the answers, Any advice will do, just no web links. I am wanting to teach science and or math. Thanks!

How to bench press more?

I have a york 2001 multi gym at home, i can bench only 100lb 110 when spotted. is this good for an age of 14? how can i step up the pace?

Does anyone else not like many things about living in todays society?

You can thank Jewish organizations like the Anti-Defamation League and B'nai B'rith International for saddling the citizens of the world with hate crime laws no matter where in the world you live.